We all know those couples that have broken up because of Facebook (or MySpace, or Migente if you wanna take it real back). We all end up being witnesses as the break-up unfolds before our computer screens and can't help watching because let's face it, it's funny. Then there are those couples who delete their profiles because Facebook "only gets people in trouble." Smh, yea sure.
I honestly don't believe the internet can ruin any relationship. And using Facebook as an excuse is just LAME. Facebook didn't force you to post up a half naked picture, or force all your groupies to leave comments. Also, no one said it was mandatory for you to discuss your relationship so that the minute it seems something is going wrong you got the "next" waiting to console you. See the point I'm getting at here?
People get into arguments over their online life because they're dumb. Why would you post something up without thinking about how it would affect the person you're with? Why do you need people commenting on every new picture about how hot and sexy you look? That is the reason why some of you are constantly updating your pictures isn't it? We are a vain society and require others to remind us that we are still interesting and attractive. I assume that's also why a lot of people update their status every 30 minutes. They want to seem relevant.
If everyone learns to control their need for attention there would be no deleting of profiles for couples. Learn to respect each other and be understanding of each other's needs. If I have a boyfriend there is no way I'm gonna post up suggestive pictures or for that matter post up new pictures every two days. For you men, that means stop taking shirtless pictures flexing your muscles. I mean if you go to the beach then of course you'll want to share pictures..but ladies, not the one of you sticking your butt at the camera. Be mindful especially of the things you say. Don't put your business out there, Facebook is not a gossip magazine and you are not a celebrity. Your friends aren't interested in every detail of your love life. And if your significant other tells you they are uncomfortable by something you posted, figure out why that is and delete it if it's a problem. Communication is the key people.
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