Just A Rant

I have a problem with women who get pregnant to trap a man. Or should I say to try and "trap" him. It's a really distorted way of thinking. That just because you get pregnant he's going to fall in love with you, or want to marry you or something. Well I've never seen either of those things. What I have seen is him complain about having to do more hours at work or maybe take a second job. What I've seen is him call her crazy and a bitch.

Eventually what happens is they both resent each other. Yes, they got a great gift out of what they once shared but now she looks at him with anger because he didn't want to be a family and he's looking at her thinking she's the enemy because he wasn't ready to be a daddy and stop being a bachelor. In the rare occasion that these people end up getting married or moving in together, it's usually to save face. He doesn't want to seem like a bad person so he gives the situation a try only to end up sleeping on the couch most nights. And she just keeps playing along like she's happy and like things are a-okay because at that point she wishes she would have never been involved with him.

Maybe im not much of an authority on this topic but I have known these guys. I haven't really known any of these women but if anyone is reading this and taking offense, just know it wasn't my intention but you may need to take another look at yourself. It just pains me when people do things without fully thinking. I mean we all do something stupid or silly when we love someone at some point but for something that will be life-altering, the pros and cons really need to be weighed out. Especially when it's going to affect more than just you. And remember what they say about assumptions...