Nice Girls Finish Last

I know that nowadays there's a lot of people complaining about finding a good man or woman, and I want to speak my piece on it. Some people (read: guys) think that it is very easy for a woman to find someone and that most of us are just complaining for no reason. I know also that a lot of women say it is easy for men to find someone but [supposedly] they are all dogs and break every woman's heart. I'm not sure I agree with either or really disagree. See, I have met a lot of honest men and women but I've also known a lot of douche bags on both sides. That's really where the problem is - you fall for someone they f*ck you over and then you don't really want to trust again.

Why nice girls finish last:

I've met some guys who are honest, and loyal but some dumb greedy b*tch decided to take advantage of that and now he doesn't want to trust another girl. Those girls piss me off 'cause I'm not one of them. I've always been an honest person, sometimes too outspoken and when I really care for someone I wear my heart on my sleeve for them. It's not fair to me to be deserving of trust but not receiving it because he is still harboring feelings of hurt. You might read this and say "well you probably do the same!" and okay, fine I do have my own bad experiences in the back of my mind but I don't hold what someone else did against the person I am trying to build something with at the moment.

I feel that you have to take the chance on someone if they are showing you that they want trust and that they deserve it. No matter what the past has presented you, you can't let it hold you back. Why deprive yourself of happiness and pleasure because of some worthless person who did you wrong? I'm gonna sound like a cliche even more now but you have to just let your experiences make you stronger and forgive that person. I know it's hard to forgive but holding onto negativity isn't healthy. Also, you really don't gain anything from it.

So all you nice girls be good to your nice boys..and nice boys if you find a nice girl, trust her.